hurt highschool style

has this ever happened to you?
you trusted somebody with very personal information about yourself and then later, maybe in a fight, this person turns the information around and uses it against you?
i assume alot of people are familiar with this kind of situation.
it’s typical highschool stuff!
well, something like this has recently happened to me!?!
the first time in a long time…
and after years i had forgotten how much this hurts.
it’s so obviously a blatant abuse of trust!
and there is such a mischivious, manipulative intention behind it!
it’s right in your face.
both people know this.
both see it.
yet still, it hurts like hell…
i was shocked, not knowing how to respond.
how does one deal with this? i did not know in highschool and i still don’t..
it is one of my goals in life to be an open book to people. especially to my friends, i will tell them anything. vulnerabilty with me has method. it feels right, it feels real, it feels good. it is what i want…
but of course, when this vulnerability gets trampeled on, it hurts.

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Jan Zuppinger has been writing this blog since 2002. He likes to grow vegetables. He likes to eat them too. He has opinions on everything, but sadly no one cares. Jan Zuppinger is not joking, just joking, he is joking, just joking, he's not joking. *click.